Breaking Free from Expectations: Walking Your Own Path to Success


I listened to a podcast and there was a story of a boy whose parents told him that he can only be successful if he became a medical doctor.

He grew up and found he didn’t have the passion for the profession and told his parents, whom nearly suffered a heart attack out of disappointment; they then managed to convince him to become an attorney to save the ‘family pride’, which he accepted and trained and qualified as an attorney.

He has never worked for once as an attorney since qualifying, but he’s very financially successful because he chose to walk down the path he built for himself which were: build a business, invest in real estate, and invest in stocks.

Are you walking down the path you were taught? or the one you built? The one you built will take you to your desired destination quicker.

Thank You Jesus,

Salvation Prayers

If you don’t Know Jesus as your personal Lord and Saviour and would like to accept him into your life as your personal Lord and Saviour, Please say this prayer:

Father, I know that I have broken your laws and my sins have separated me from You. I am truly sorry, and now I want to turn away from my past sinful life toward You. Please forgive me, and help me avoid sinning again. I believe that Your son, Jesus Christ died for my sins, was resurrected from the dead, is alive, and hears my prayer. I invite Jesus to become the Lord of my life, to rule and reign in my heart from this day forward. Please send Your Holy Spirit to help me obey You, and to do Your Will for the rest of my life. In Jesus’ name I pray, Amen.

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May The Grace The Lord Jesus Christ, And The Love Of God, And The Fellowship Of The Holy Spirit Be With You All. Amen!

Chukwuemeka Obiorah Ogwo.

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“A Cautionary Tale of Deception and Redemption”


This is a story that a good friend told me, recently.

According to her, she met the woman at an airport overseas, while they were waiting for their luggage. She was happy to see a fellow Lagos-based in a far away land and they quickly exchanged contact details. She even left her hand luggage with the other lady as she headed to claim their luggage, having collected the other lady’s luggage-tag.

Afterwards, they promised to see catch up in town. Although, both women were there for business.

Her nightmare only began when she got to her destination (a hotel) and it was time to pay the Taxi fare.

She turned her hand bag upside down but her purse was missing. And in that purse was her international passport (she was to travel to the US from there) and the sum of seven thousand dollars.

She told me that her hands kept going up in the air in desperation and anguish but the taxi driver (who neither spoke nor understood English language) was having none of that and was already releasing aggressive words on her.

Luckily for her, the five hundred dollars (last minute arrangement) that someone gave her at the airport back home to help her buy something fell down from the inner pocket of her of hand bag and that was what she changed to the local currency, to be able to get the driver (who had already started pouring expletives on her) off her back.

She then turned to the hotel staff (who were very sympathetic) and relayed the issue to them. And it was them that advised her to go back to the airport and report the incident to the airport authorities.

She did as advised and only had to sit back to marvel at the wonder of technology.  But before then, she had placed a call to her new friend and the woman’s line was unreachable.

 She wanted to share her nightmare with someone!

The airport authorities began by replaying the closed-circuit television (CCTV) right from when they disembarked from the plane and walked to baggage-claim.

The CCTV (now zoomed from various angles) showed when she brought out that purse to take her tags and put it back in the bag…unzipped.

The shock was when her new friend threw a few glances around before putting that same purse in her own hand bag.

Now armed with the information they were looking for, she was asked if she has the lady’s contact details and she nodded.

It turned out that the phone number was fake!

She told me that she should have known that something was not adding up when she dialed that same number immediately the woman called it out and it didn’t go through, yet same woman had used the airport Wi-fi to make calls from her phone earlier.

The CCTV also captured the Taxi that drove her new friend out of the airport.

Calls were made and within minutes, the Taxi driver told them where he dropped that particular passenger.

By now, the police had taken over the matter,  about four of them (three females and a male) were involved.

At the hotel where the other lady lodged, the police kept out of sight and got the hotel staff to knock on the door. They did as instructed and the police swooped in as soon as she opened the door.

On the bed was my friend’s purse, international passport and the money…spread like it had just been counted.

That lady was led out of that hotel room in handcuffs.

Further details given about the matter, were…

The other lady’s husband was contacted. He did not believe it.

His words were “my wife is a Pastor. She cannot do such a thing.’’

“What do I tell the children” were the next words he was heard saying.

My friend also said that even though the woman begged profusely for her forgiveness, that country’s police made it clear that it was no longer in her powers to decide the outcome of the case and that was when she realized that those people are very unforgiving of exported criminality.

This is the thing about demon of the self that we are often in denial of.

 If you don’t seek help and actively confront them, the monster will keep rearing its ugly head where it will cause you maximum damage.

Character flaws like paedophilia, nymphomania, kleptomania etc, are all demons of the self that should not be swept under the carpet.

You can NOT even pray away a reality that you are not willing to work on with all sincerity.

The mistake is thinking you will always get away with demons of the self. They are too grave to not give you the damage or humiliation of a life time!

Thank You Jesus,

Salvation Prayers

If you don’t Know Jesus as your personal Lord and Saviour and would like to accept him into your life as your personal Lord and Saviour, Please say this prayer:

Father, I know that I have broken your laws and my sins have separated me from You. I am truly sorry, and now I want to turn away from my past sinful life toward You. Please forgive me, and help me avoid sinning again. I believe that Your son, Jesus Christ died for my sins, was resurrected from the dead, is alive, and hears my prayer. I invite Jesus to become the Lord of my life, to rule and reign in my heart from this day forward. Please send Your Holy Spirit to help me obey You, and to do Your Will for the rest of my life. In Jesus’ name I pray, Amen.

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It cost a lot of money to maintain a website, Nonetheless a non-profit Christian website,

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Account Number,0139438409,

Guaranty Trust Bank Plc Nigeria,

To help us continue in the spreading of The GOSPEL OF OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST to every corner of this world,

Thank You Very Much For Your Support,

May GOD, we Serve Bless You A Million Times in return, Amen,

May God Bless Israel, Nigeria, And America And Take Care Of Us; May God Make His Face Shine Upon Us, And Be Gracious To Us; May The Lord Lift Up His Countenance Upon Us, And Give Us Peace, In Jesus Christ Name, We Pray! Amen!

May The Grace The Lord Jesus Christ, And The Love Of God, And The Fellowship Of The Holy Spirit Be With You All. Amen!

Chukwuemeka Obiorah Ogwo.

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“The Unseen Sacrifices of Men: A Lesson in Appreciation”


Many years ago Mrs Cynthia Okpara went to her husband’s office to report him to his boss. She told her husband’s boss how her husband Mr Odogwu Okpara usually squander his N60,000 salary and only gave her N30,000 for upkeep.

After her narration, the boss told her to come back on the last day of the month.

On the said day, she arrived as planned. The boss called Mr Odogwu and they all sat down in the boss’ office.

The boss started, “Mr. Odogwu, your wife reported to me some days ago that you squander your salary outside and only give the family N30,000 for upkeep. So right now, I’m going to personally hand over your salaries to her from today henceforth.”

‘How much is your transportation to work daily?’ the boss asked.

‘N900 sir’, Mr. Odogwu replied.

The boss handed over N19,800 to Mr. Odogwu. ‘That should take you for 22 days’.

‘Do you take breakfast at home?’ the boss continued.

‘No sir, I leave home very early to beat traffic jam’.

‘How much do you spend on breakfast and lunch daily?’

‘N500 sir’, replied Mr. Odogwu.

The boss handed over N11,000 to Mr. Odogwu.

‘Who pays the children’s school fees’, the boss asked facing Mrs. Okpara.

‘He does’, she replied pointing at Mr. Odogwu.

‘How much is the school fees and how many kids have you?’

‘N30,000 per term for the two kids we have?’

‘In other words, you save N10,000 monthly for each term’s school fees right?’

‘Yes sir’, replied Mr. Odogwu.

Once again, the boss handed N10,000 to him.

‘Who pays the rent and how much is it?’

‘I do sir. The rent is N36,000 per annum.’ Mr. Odogwu replied.

‘That’s N3,000 monthly right?’, the boss added as he handed over N3,000 to Mr. Odogwu

‘I don’t want to ask about clothings, electricity bills, etc as I know both of you might be handling that’, the boss said as he handed over N16,200 to Mrs. Okpara

‘What’s this for sir’, Mrs. Okpara asked surprised.

‘Money for upkeep’, the boss replied her.

‘But it wouldn’t take us anywhere’, she exclaimed.

‘So why don’t you appreciate the N30,000 your husband sacrifices for you monthly?’, the boss asked.

The woman hugged her husband tightly and the rest is history.

Moral lesson:

Mrs Okpara and a lot of women reading this don’t know what their husbands sacrifice to put food on the table. Most times, they go hungry. Sometimes, they swallow their pride and engage in menial and debasing jobs just so their families can eat. A lot of times, they can’t even buy good clothes to wear rather they sacrifice so that their wives and kids can get one.

A man might not tell you what he goes through to get you the cash he gives to you as telling you might make you start underrating his person but to tell you the truth, men go through a lot and need to be appreciated.

Thank You Jesus,

Salvation Prayers

If you don’t Know Jesus as your personal Lord and Saviour and would like to accept him into your life as your personal Lord and Saviour, Please say this prayer:

Father, I know that I have broken your laws and my sins have separated me from You. I am truly sorry, and now I want to turn away from my past sinful life toward You. Please forgive me, and help me avoid sinning again. I believe that Your son, Jesus Christ died for my sins, was resurrected from the dead, is alive, and hears my prayer. I invite Jesus to become the Lord of my life, to rule and reign in my heart from this day forward. Please send Your Holy Spirit to help me obey You, and to do Your Will for the rest of my life. In Jesus’ name I pray, Amen.

Support Our Ministry,

Good Morning Dear,

It cost a lot of money to maintain a website, Nonetheless a non-profit Christian website,

Please if you have been blessed by this ministry and you are led to support and bless this ministry in return,

Please make your donation to this account,

Chukwuemeka Obiorah Ogwo,

Account Number,0139438409,

Guaranty Trust Bank Plc Nigeria,

To help us continue in the spreading of The GOSPEL OF OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST to every corner of this world,

Thank You Very Much For Your Support,

May GOD, we Serve Bless You A Million Times in return, Amen,

May God Bless Israel, Nigeria, And America And Take Care Of Us; May God Make His Face Shine Upon Us, And Be Gracious To Us; May The Lord Lift Up His Countenance Upon Us, And Give Us Peace, In Jesus Christ Name, We Pray! Amen!

May The Grace The Lord Jesus Christ, And The Love Of God, And The Fellowship Of The Holy Spirit Be With You All. Amen!

Chukwuemeka Obiorah Ogwo.

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“The Law of Reverse: How Navy SEALs Can Teach You to Achieve Your Goals”


The Navy SEALs are Earth’s elite warriors.

Here’s one thing they were taught from the beginning…

The Law of Reverse (how to get what you want by letting yourself go):

In Navy SEAL training, there’s a thing called Drown Proofing.

The instructors tie your hands and feet…

And they throw you into a 9-foot pool.

The objective is to survive for 5 minutes.

Some panic and need to be taken out.

There have even been some who have died.

But many pass, because they know the secrets behind the test:

The first: the more you try to keep your head above water:

The more likely you are to sink.

With hands and feet tied…

It is impossible to stay afloat for 5 minutes.

The second: the more scared you are, the more oxygen you burn.

The paradox is brutal:

The more you try to live, the less likely you are to stay alive.

What you have to do is relax completely and let yourself sink.

When you reach the bottom, get up again to get some air.

Repeat.

This story perfectly summarizes the law of backwards.

The law of the reverse:

When more effort means less reward.

Thank You Jesus,

Salvation Prayers

If you don’t Know Jesus as your personal Lord and Saviour and would like to accept him into your life as your personal Lord and Saviour, Please say this prayer:

Father, I know that I have broken your laws and my sins have separated me from You. I am truly sorry, and now I want to turn away from my past sinful life toward You. Please forgive me, and help me avoid sinning again. I believe that Your son, Jesus Christ died for my sins, was resurrected from the dead, is alive, and hears my prayer. I invite Jesus to become the Lord of my life, to rule and reign in my heart from this day forward. Please send Your Holy Spirit to help me obey You, and to do Your Will for the rest of my life. In Jesus’ name I pray, Amen.

Support Our Ministry,

Good Morning Dear,

It cost a lot of money to maintain a website, Nonetheless a non-profit Christian website,

Please if you have been blessed by this ministry and you are led to support and bless this ministry in return,

Please make your donation to this account,

Chukwuemeka Obiorah Ogwo,

Account Number,0139438409,

Guaranty Trust Bank Plc Nigeria,

To help us continue in the spreading of The GOSPEL OF OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST to every corner of this world,

Thank You Very Much For Your Support,

May GOD, we Serve Bless You A Million Times in return, Amen,

May God Bless Israel, Nigeria, And America And Take Care Of Us; May God Make His Face Shine Upon Us, And Be Gracious To Us; May The Lord Lift Up His Countenance Upon Us, And Give Us Peace, In Jesus Christ Name, We Pray! Amen!

May The Grace The Lord Jesus Christ, And The Love Of God, And The Fellowship Of The Holy Spirit Be With You All. Amen!

Chukwuemeka Obiorah Ogwo.

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