Men don’t marry women solely because they are rich.

Men don’t marry women solely because they are beautiful.

Men don’t marry women solely because they are endowed.

Men don’t marry women solely because she stayed with him during hard times.

Men don’t marry women solely because she is Christian and she speaks in tongues.

Men don’t marry women solely because she’s a Muslim and she uses hijab.

Men don’t marry women solely because she studied medicine or law or whatever course.

Men, (I mean men who have some level of self esteem and self respect), marry women because they have found something in that woman that makes them want to choose her every single day.

Sometimes, it is peace.

Sometimes, it is respect.

Sometimes, it is friendship, understanding, attraction, character, emotional safety, compatibility, or simply how life feels when you are around.

You can be the most beautiful woman he has ever dated and still not be the woman he wants to marry.

You can stay with a man through poverty and hardship, and he can be forever grateful to you, but gratitude is not marriage.

You can have three degrees, make more money than him, pray five times a day or speak in tongues until the ceiling starts shaking, but none of these automatically makes you someone a man wants to spend his entire life with.

Because marriage is not a reward for being a “good woman.”

It is choosing someone you believe you can actually do life with.

Someone you can disagree with without disrespect.

Someone you can struggle with without becoming enemies.

Someone you can trust with your weaknesses, your children, your money, your dreams and your future.

Beauty can attract him.

Your achievements can impress him.

Your sacrifices can make him appreciate you.

Your religion can make him respect you.

But when it comes to marriage, he still has to look at YOU, beyond everything you possess and everything you have done, and genuinely think:

“This is the woman I want to come home to for the rest of my life.”

The question is; ARE YOU THAT PERSON???

Prayer Points:

Prayer Point for Inner Peace, Wisdom, and godly Character:

Prayer: Good Morning Heavenly Father! Please, transform me from the inside out. Help me to cultivate a gentle spirit, a peaceful demeanor, and sound godly wisdom that creates an atmosphere of safety, joy, and calm for my current (or future) partner, all to Your Glory alone, in Jesus Christ, Our Lord and Personal Saviour’s, Powerful and Mighty name, I pray! Amen!

1 Peter 3:3-4 (GNB): You should not use outward aids to make yourselves beautiful, such as the way you fix your hair, or the jewelry you put on, or the dresses you wear. Instead, your beauty should consist of your true inner self, the ageless beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of the greatest value in God’s sight.

Prayer Point for Divine Discernment and Emotional Compatibility:

Prayer: Good Morning Lord God Almighty! Please, grant me spiritual discernment to recognize genuine love, mutual respect, and emotional alignment in relationships. Deliver me from relying solely on external qualifications or gratitude, and guide me to build connections rooted in divine truth, all to Your Glory alone, in Jesus Christ, Our Lord and Personal Saviour’s, Powerful and Mighty name, I pray! Amen!

Proverbs 3:5-6 (GNB): “Trust in the LORD with all your heart. Never rely on what you think you know. Remember the LORD in everything you do, and he will show you the right way.”

Prayer Point for Mutual Respect and Effective Communication:

Prayer: Good Morning Lord Jesus Christ! Please, teach me how to communicate with grace, humility, and honor. May my speech build up rather than tear down, allowing us to navigate disagreements without disrespect or bitterness, all to God’s Glory alone, in Jesus Christ, Our Lord and Personal Saviour’s, Powerful and Mighty name, I pray! Amen!

Ephesians 4:2-3 (GNB): Be always humble, gentle, and patient. Show your love by being tolerant with one another. Do your best to preserve the unity which the Spirit gives by means of the peace that binds you together.

Prayer Point for Trustworthiness, Integrity, and Character Development:

Prayer: Good Morning Heavenly Father! Please, make me a person of unyielding integrity and trustworthiness. Help me to be someone my partner can safely trust with their dreams, weaknesses, family, and future, all to Your Glory alone, in Jesus Christ, Our Lord and Personal Saviour’s, Powerful and Mighty name, I pray! Amen!

Proverbs 31:11-12 (GNB): “Her husband puts his trust in her, and he will never be poor. She does him good all his life, never harm.”

Prayer Point for God’s Grace to Build a Fulfilling Lifelong Union:

Prayer: Good Morning Lord GOD Almighty! Please, align my heart with Your will for my relational journey. Give me the grace to be a supportive companion and a true safe haven, so that my life and union bring glory to Your Holy name, all to Your Glory alone O Lord, in Jesus Christ, Our Lord and Personal Saviour’s, Powerful and Mighty name, I pray! Amen!

Proverbs 18:22 (GNB): “Find a wife and you find a good thing; it shows that the LORD is good to you.”

Thank You Jesus:

Salvation Prayer:

If you don’t Know Jesus as your personal Lord and Saviour and would like to accept him into your life as your personal Lord and Saviour, Please say this prayer:

Father, I know that I have broken your laws and my sins have separated me from You. I am truly sorry, and now I want to turn away from my past sinful life toward You. Please forgive me, and help me avoid sinning again. I believe that Your son, Jesus Christ died for my sins, was resurrected from the dead, is alive, and hears my prayer. I invite Jesus to become the Lord of my life, to rule and reign in my heart from this day forward. Please send Your Holy Spirit to help me obey You, and to do Your Will for the rest of my life. In Jesus’ name I pray, Amen.

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