The UNSTOPPABLE CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE. A Sermon By Mummy GO During RCCG Youth Convention. The UNSTOPPABLE GENERATION.


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Gen 1:27-28, Ephesians 5: 21- 33

It is very important you don’t miss it when it comes to picking who to marry. If you marry wrongly, you can’t enjoy your life to the fullest.

Anything we call Christian is of Christ. So a Christian marriage starts with Christ. The basic foundation for a Christian marriage is for both the man and woman involved to be saved and redeemed!

In a Christian marriage, there is no room for divorce or exchange of spouse, as a result one needs a firm foundation in Jesus to be able to withstand some pressures that may arise.

There is time for everything, when it is time for you to settle down, the Holy spirit Himself will minister to you. When have the urge to getting married, don’t just rush into it, wait upon the Lord for directions (Isaiah 40:31).  Don’t go after your desires and lust, in waiting, ask, seek and knock. Ask God to show you His will for your life.

God’s will for your life could be revealed to you through dreams, visions, word of knowledge, word of God, deep convictions in the spirit.

Ladies, it is prohibited for you to go tell a man ‘You’re my husband’. Ladies never proposed to men in the Bible and anything outside the Bible isn’t the standard. It is all modern doctrine for a woman to go after the man, wait on God and He’ll bring the right person.

After waiting on God and He has shown you the revelation, don’t go to the person straight, go tell your pastor. That is RCCG doctrine! Tell your pastor so they can pray along and do some investigation about the person.

Also tell your parents about it! They also will pray and carry out any necessary background checks. In the midst of counsellors, you won’t go wrong!

When your pastor and parents have confirmed it, the man and woman then need to come into agreement. You start courtship.

In courtship, you don’t meet up in secret places, be transparent! Protect yourself from evil, don’t give room to the devil. There have been many sad stories of Christian singles getting pregnant before marriage. Have your meetings in an open place, e.g your pastors’ house.

Get to know each other during courtship. If you enter into marriage with deceit, you’ll reap it later! Show your true colours to your partner!

If in courtship, you realise the marriage won’t work, it is better to call it off, get out of it before it is too late!  A broken courtship is much better than a broken marriage.

During courtship, you need to go for counselling. All RCCG churches do marriage counselling, don’t try to avoid it, it will help you and the experiences of older couples will come in handy after the wedding.

After courtship and counselling have been successful, proceed to the altar!

The material benefits you get before marriage doesn’t determine how good the marriage will eventually be. The secret to many successful Christian marriage is contentment!

Don’t take a loan for marriage! Cut your coat according to your size!

Prepare your mind! You don’t know who you dated in courtship well enough until you start living together! 6years after the marriage you will still be discovering new things about the person.

Prayer is important even after the wedding as practical living is different from all the pre-martial/ honeymoon excitement!

After the wedding, women are to submit to their husbands! Even if you are older, still submit. Even when you don’t agree, submit first, be nice and put your suggestions forward in a nice and peaceful way!

As a woman, accept the leadership of your husband and respect him. If he can only afford ‘N20,000’ take it and use it wisely. You have to be able to manage resources very well!

In a marriage, there will be a time of plenty and time of scarcity! Endure, be patient with each other and manage what you have together.

The husband is the leader and priest of the family. Show your wife love, use no abusive languages on her, respect her, tolerate her and love her as Christ loves the church.

To experience an unstoppable Christian marriage, don’t allow a third party get involved in your marriage.

To experience an unstoppable Christian marriage, show each other what you expect in return. If you want peace in your marriage pursue peace, if you want laughter, laugh! Don’t frown at your spouse! If you want care in your marriage, care for your wife and she’ll shower you with care! If you give your wife 20% love, she’ll give you 120% love in return!

Apart from giving birth to children together, you are pray together, eat together, sleep together, suffer together, endure together, enjoy abundance together, train your children together, take care of your household together, and take care of your parents and siblings together. Mark 3:25

A good Christian home will bring you unstoppable joy, peace, good children, abundance and an open heaven!

To experience an unstoppable Christian marriage, start preparing for it now!  Pray about it, hand over every part of your life to God and He’ll make great plans for you!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

May the LORD bless Nigeria, American and Israel and take care of us; May the LORD make His face shine upon us, And be gracious to us; May the Lord lift up His countenance upon us, And give us peace, In Jesus Christ Name, we pray! Amen!

LET’s TALK ABOUT SEX, A Sermon By Pastor Matthew Ashimolwo during RCCG Youth Convention 2012


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LET’s TALK ABOUT SEX

Proverbs 4:23, Proverbs 6: 23-27

Be careful what you take in, the music and movies you watch could desensitizes you to the truth. It is the truth you know that will set you free.

Colossians 3:5-6

You are to honour God with your body, sex is not allowed outside marriage.
Even though Nike may say ‘Just do it!” You’re not to with SEX!

The simple thought of sex crossing your mind is not a sin but the desire for sex is the sin!

Sex goes beyond the physical, it’s spiritual and emotional!

In the Bible, when a man sleeps with his wife the Bible says “He knew his wife” but when a young man sleeps with an unmarried woman the Bible says “He laid with her”

Don’t let anybody deceive you, you can know them by their words. e.g “You don’t need to tell anybody what we are about to do!”

If a guy comes to you with a condom, he is a con(artist) and you are dumb!

Virginity is something you give away and not what is taken from you by force! If you were violated and tampered with, only your virginity is broken, you destiny isn’t, so don’t mess up yourself! You are still so precious in God’s sight. God values you, He values your body so honour Him with it!

85% of those who live together before getting married end up divorced. 50% of marriages in UK and 80% of black marriages in US end up in divorce!

If you sell yourself cheap, you end up being treated anyhow. A man who cannot treat you like a lady doesn’t deserve you and any woman who cannot treat you like a prince doesn’t deserve you!

Don’t start what you can’t handle! The skin is only a few centimetres deep and beneath that skin, there are 18million nerves passing information round. Whenever someone touches you sexually, your nerves send information that are stored somewhere in your brain. That’s why when you see the person later you remember the touch! You have imprints of people on your life through sexual relationships.

Don’t let anyone touch you in a way that is not holy. From hugs to kissing and then the deed happens unplanned!

Once you mess up your sexual life, it messes up your spiritual life! Get it right!

Exodus 26, 27 gives a summary of the Tabernacle. It was divided into the outer court, the Holy place, Holy of Holies. As a human being, your body is the outer court, your soul the holy place and your spirit the holy of holies!

The outer court gave access to many levities and they brought their sacrifices there. Your body is your outer court many people will have access to you, you’ll meet many boys/girls but be careful, many will come and go. Proverbs 4:23

Only the priests were allowed into the holy place. The holy in your body is your soul. Your emotions are conceived there. Before you let anyone touch your soul, be very careful! The reason many broken relationship ends up a soul tie is because they let someone else make an impact on their soul and no matter how much they try to forget the person it is difficult.

Guard your soul, don’t let just any nice person get in. The holy place had a lamp stand in it, anyone who must get into your holy place must be a lamp. Ladies, any man that wants to court/date/marry you must have more light than you already have! He needs to be the lamp! Don’t settle for less!

Only the High priest was allowed to enter into the holy of holies (Hebrews 9:7)! He had to break through the veil to get in. There is only man allowed to get into you and that is your husband! When a man sleeps with a virgin, it’s more than just sex! It’s spiritual, it’s a blood covenant!

Guys note, everywhere you go as a man and have sexual releases, your testicles will testify against you! The reason God gave you two testicles is because the Bible says out of 2 or more witnesses, a statement is established (Deuteronomy 17:6).

There is a point when sexual activities go beyond the physical, it becomes a demonic activity! It is spiritual!

Easy sex does not make more romance, neither does it give joy and happiness!

When you have sex while waiting to be married, you crush the foundation of your marriage

Don’t let anyone blackmail you to stay in a relationship! After giving your life to Christ break away from every ungodly relationship!

Titus 2:11-12

To get out:

It requires the decision to maintain your integrity!

It requires a bold step to confront ungodly relationship you are in!

Break away and make a vow to be pure!

Keep yourself and honour God with your life!

No sex is safe sex!

Desire change, deny yourself!

May the LORD bless Nigeria, American and Israel and take care of us; May the LORD make His face shine upon us, And be gracious to us; May the Lord lift up His countenance upon us, And give us peace, In Jesus Christ Name, we pray! Amen!

Sermon By Pastor Matthew Ashimolowo During RCCG Youth Convention. A MINDSET OF KINGDOM MILLIONAIRES.


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A Mindset Of Kingdom Millionaires!

Money is like a current, it is either flowing to you or flowing away from you that is why it is called Currency. So you need to learn how to magnetise money.

Most people are poor because of lack of knowledge and examples/training they received from parents and authority figures.  If you grew up in an environment that says “money is meant to be spent”, you’ll never have savings”

Psalm 66:12Every year loads of people are joining the millionaires club! God wants to raise you as a person who can make a difference in your world.

It is not true that there is money scarcity in the world, rather every year millions of people cross the millionaires threshold.

Don’t listen to the what ‘ifs’ and words of distractions around you. You work towards getting blessed first and watch God teach you how to handle it.

There are people who lack the right knowledge to make wealth, some Christians will cry and pray for financial breakthroughs but their financial levels never change because they haven’t obeyed the laws of wealth making.  There are certain laws you must follow to make wealth, if you don’t obey them you can’t be a millionaire!

The law of gravity doesn’t respect anointing!

2 Timothy 1:7 To be a millionaire you have to overcome the spirit of fear! Things may not always go right at first but don’t let that stop you, God hasn’t given you the spirit of fear!

The secret of success is that there are no secrets! If you do what others have done you will get the results other millionaires have gotten. God is no respecter of person, colour, gender or age. If you believe Him, He’ll do greater things in your life.

Unsaved people become financially successful because they know the proper steps to follow.  There is a time for fasting and prayers but there are certain principles you must follow! The richest man in Nigeria, Aliko Dangote is not a Christian even the young man who owns facebook is worth over 20million dollars and he isn’t born again! You have a kingdom mindset, the spirit of God dwells in you so too you can make it!

7 PRINCIPLES  TO FOLLOW

1) Have a great dream/purpose/ vision.

-Write down your dream/vision for the next 1yr, 5yrs, 10yrs- See yourself in the place of wholeness, happiness and wealth (Proverbs 23:7)- Ask yourself precisely  ‘where do I want to be in 5yrs?’.  Bible says God will grant the desires of our heart, if you don’t have a desire, what do you expect God to work with?

2) Do what you are passionate about!

Prosperity doesn’t come just because you went to university or have a good job!  Find out what you are passionate about, pursue it and it will take you places

-Turn your passion into a source of income

– Don’t start with a NGO if you have not worked for a couple of years. Broke cannot help broke and it is difficult for a struggling person to help struggling people.

– Too many Christian youths are jobseekers! JOB stands for “Just Over Broke“. You can never become a billionaire through a job. No bank CEO through their official basic salary makes 1million dollars.

3) Find and develop your unique gift!

Matt25:15 God has blessed every one of us with gifts, you’re gifted!

– Package your skills and talents well!  All Oprah Winfrey does is talk! Women like to talk but she packaged her talk very well and she’s making big money.

4). See yourself as self employed whether you have a job or not!

-Those who end up millionaires don’t work the contracted “8am-4pm” “9am-5pm” hours at their place of work; they go an extra mile and work over time when needed.

– There must be results in the hours you’re being paid for!  See the organisation you work for as yours, give it your very best and when you get your own company you’ll be disciplined enough to manage it effectively and efficiently!

5) Be committed to excellence!

-To excel means to surpass, to be ahead, to be at the top, to be NO 1.  When you are on top of your game, people will notice and respect you.        Proverbs 22:29, Proverbs 18: 16

– All successful people are good at what they do! Before you put something out there, make sure it is excellently done!

6) Develop a clear sense of direction

-Where are you going? How would you know when you get there? What are the milestones?

-Even in your relationship, when it comes to picking who to marry, make sure you pick someone with a clear vision as you! If God wants to prosper you and you are with the wrong person it might not work out, it takes only one Jonah to sink a ship!

– No goal, No go! You can’t go forward without goals, set goals for direction.

– Make a plan and write it down (Habakkuk 2:2).  If you know it and it’s written down, it’s easier to remain focussed when challenges and distractions come.

7) Have a money mission!

What do you intend to do with the money when God eventually blesses you?

Bible says in Proverbs 1:32 that the prosperity of fools end up destroying them.

4 Money Missions To Follow As A Christian

– Be a Kingdom promoter (Matthew 6:23)

– Be a blessing to your family

– Be a blessing to the household of faith (Gal 6:10)

– Be a blessing to those who are needy (James 1:29).

– 3 Things you need to combine as a believer.

1) The skill in which you’re trained

2) You natural abilities and inborn traits

3) The anointing of God.

You can be wealthy if you make good use of your gifts, develop them and depend totally on God!

May the LORD bless Nigeria, American and Israel and take care of us; May the LORD make His face shine upon us, And be gracious to us; May the Lord lift up His countenance upon us, And give us peace, In Jesus Christ Name, we pray! Amen!

Prayer Points Day 4 Of RCCG Youth Convention 2012 “THE UNSTOPPABLE GENERATION” By Pastor E A Adeboye


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1) Father thank You for making me a part of this unstoppable generation.

2) Father whatever will hinder my prayers today or throughout this convention, let Your blood clear them

3) Father every contention over my life and destiny, let them cease completely from today.

4) Father every satanic personality assigned to monitor my life and purpose, frustrate today.

5) Father every garment of shame, disfavour, lack and poverty used to cover my glory, consume by fire.

6) Every strong man from my lineage withstanding my progress, I declare your backbone broken

7) Father every negative pronouncement against my life and destiny, I render null and void.

8) Father let Your glory be revealed in every area of my life.

9) Father every gift You have deposited into my life that is lying dormant, let them find expression today

10) Father make me a vessel unto honour and use me for Your glory

11) Father make me the solution to pending national and generational problems

12) Lord make me unstoppable in all areas of my life

13) Personal Prayer Point

May the LORD bless Nigeria, American and Israel and take care of us; May the LORD make His face shine upon us, And be gracious to us; May the Lord lift up His countenance upon us, And give us peace, In Jesus Christ Name, we pray! Amen!

John 3:16. For God So Loved The World


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John 3:16. For God So Loved The World

For God so loved the world that He gave His One and Only Son (JESUS CHRIST), that

whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life (AMEN)!

May the LORD bless Nigeria, American and Israel and take care of us; May the LORD make His face shine upon us, And be gracious to us; May the Lord lift up His countenance upon us, And give us peace, In Jesus Christ Name, we pray! Amen!

Numbers 23:8; 23. No One Can Curse You!


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Numbers 23:8; 23. No One Can Curse You!

How can I (Our enemies) curse those whom God has not cursed? How can I (Our enemies)denounce those whom the LORD has not denounced?………………………………………………………..There is no sorcery against Jacob (You), no divination against Israel(Me), it will now be said of Jacob(You) and of Israel(I), “See what God has done?

May the LORD bless Nigeria, American and Israel and take care of us; May the LORD make His face shine upon us, And be gracious to us; May the Lord lift up His countenance upon us, And give us peace, In Jesus Christ Name, we pray! Amen!

Philippians 2:5 Let Christ Jesus Be Our Example In Humility


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Philippians 2:5 Let Christ Jesus Be Our Example In Humility

Let this same attitude and purpose and (humble) mind be in you which was in Christ Jesus: (Let Him be your example in humility) (Amplified Version)

May the LORD bless Nigeria, American and Israel and take care of us; May the LORD make His face shine upon us, And be gracious to us; May the Lord lift up His countenance upon us, And give us peace, In Jesus Christ Name, we pray! Amen!

Zechariah 8:23. God Is With You


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Zechariah 8:23. God Is With You

This is what the LORD Almighty says: “In those days ten men from all language and nations will take firm hold of one Jew (A Believer) by the hem of his robe and say, “Let us go with you, because we have heard that God is with you.”

May the LORD bless Nigeria, American and Israel and take care of us; May the LORD make His face shine upon us, And be gracious to us; May the Lord lift up His countenance upon us, And give us peace, In Jesus Christ Name, we pray! Amen!

Isaiah 60:1. Arise And Shine!


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Isaiah 60:1. Arise And Shine!

Arise (From the depression, limitations, prostration in which circumstances have kept you – rise to a new life)! Shine (Be radiant with the glory of the Lord), for your light has come, and the glory of the LORD has risen upon you!

May the LORD bless Nigeria, American and Israel and take care of us; May the LORD make His face shine upon us, And be gracious to us; May the Lord lift up His countenance upon us, And give us peace, In Jesus Christ Name, we pray! Amen!

Behold, Children Are A Heritage From The LORD. Psalms 127:3-5 (Amplified Version)


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Behold, Children Are A Heritage From The LORD. Psalms 127:3-5 (Amplified Version)

Behold, children are a heritage from the LORD, the fruit of the womb a reward.

As arrows are in the hand of a warrior, so are the children of one’s youth.

Happy, blessed, and fortunate is the man whose quiver is filled with them! They will not be put to shame when the speak with their adversaries (in gatherings) at the (City’s) gate.

May the LORD bless Nigeria, American and Israel and take care of us; May the LORD make His face shine upon us, And be gracious to us; May the Lord lift up His countenance upon us, And give us peace, In Jesus Christ Name, we pray! Amen!